Dinner was excellent. Started off friendly and with him telling me how lonely and sad he is without Hot swingers wants porno Rehoboth Beach me around. Seems he hasn't even put new sheets on the bed since I left (the old ones were mine and came with me). He feels adrift and "flat" since I left. He talked, I talked. I almost bailed on the way there, I was so nervous. I ended up crying at the table, but asked him what he thought I thought our main problem was. His response was, "That I smoke pot and you don't want to be with a potsmoker". I told him that *wasn't* my issue. It's the effects and degree of the smoking that bother me most, not the mere fact that he does it. I think he was surprised, although I feel I've gone over this a dozen times. I cried. He didn't. I think he's numb from the pot (?), which kind of sucks. Basiy, he doesn't want to change, or doesn't believe he can/should have to. Doesn't seem to believe a relationship should take "effort". :-/ Thinks maybe he's just meant to be alone his whole life. He apologized for not doing anything on my birthday, but said he was so sad I'd decided to move out that weekend, that he was really resistant to helping me move or do anything. Seeing my new place and meeting my roommate was hard on him and he didn't want to do it, although he did (do it), but bailed out quickly and didn't acknowledge my birthday other than saying "Happy birthday". (My brand new roommate ended up getting me a cake.) We ended on a somewhat tender note, but overall I felt drained and sad. When I got home, my roommate had a cup of my favorite coffee waiting for me, along with a nice note. I brought him some food from the restaurant, which he was excited about, then played with the dog, which helps. My roommate and I have been staying up late talking every night and he's due back shortly. He's such a support, but I'm undecided whether to bring tonight up, mainly because I'm still processing how I feel about it. (He didn't know the ex and I were meeting.) Anyway, thanks for all of the advice. I wasn't able to get on much after the top-post due to server errors, but appreciated reading your thoughts later on.
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