Antioch TN sexy womenBlackpool Submission = Freedom (not slavery) m4w
Im afraid theres a lot of confusion and even disinformation out there! Men and women alike are falling prey to misunderstandings based on pop fiction and movies. They think its all about whips and manacles and loss of control. They have it wrong.
Submission = Freedom.
Submission is not about getting the crap kicked out of you. Submission isnt about some guy you hardly know tying you up, choking you, and then giving you a social disease while he rapes you. Submission is not defined by what it looks like on the surface.
True D/s is about trusting someone enough that you confidently place yourself in their respectful hands so that you can let go and finally quiet all those voices chanting about what good girls do and dont do. I pity American womenon the one hand you have it drilled into you like boot camp that you have to look good, be sexy, wear tight clothes over your gym-firmed bodies but on the other hand you have it instilled in you that proper women are chaste, deny their sensual needs. Only sluts enjoy sexevery women in this country knows that.
Submission lets you cast all that BS aside. When you cede control to another you also relinquish all that background static that our double-standard society uses to drown out the voice of your natural desires. A true Dom doesnt want to hurt youhe wants to unleash the inner, beautiful, sensual, uninhibited woman within you. He seeks the honor of being the shepherd to your true self. And like a shepherd hes there to guide you through this unknown terrain your new-found freedom opens up to you. Hes your guide toward a higher place, a lofty realm of sensuality, sexuality, and freedom from inhibition that you can now only dream of. Yes, he uses many tools and techniques to get you there, but its not the trappings that define the journey. And its not any to subjugate but his humble honor to witness the blossoming of your true self that is his ultimate satisfaction.
I get it. You can come to trust me. Lets begin the journey togetherthe first step is : respond. You will never regret it.